In life, love often finds its way through the cracks of silence and uncertainty. It’s a force that persists, even when met with resistance.
Growing up, I never heard the words, “I love you.” Not once. To this day, I have never heard a member of my family of origin say those three words. Ever. When Leslie came to live with me, it was an unspoken understanding. But I am persistent.
Every night, just before she went to sleep, I would go into her room and say, “I love you.” She would simply said “ok” or not reply at all. That’s the only thing she’s known.
Those three words became a testament to my unwavering commitment to her well-being. It was a small gesture, perhaps, but one rooted in resilience and determination.
As Leslie embarked on her new journey in her new home, our bond faced new challenges. We daily rely on Facetime calls to connect when she is not visiting.
On Wednesday, at the end of our call, I said, “I love you.”
The video usually clicks off halfway through her reply of “ok” or the call just ends. Just the fact that she’s using an iPad is mind-boggling, so I’m never surprised when it ends abruptly.
But this time…this time…mind blown. Just before the video clicked off, eleven days before her sixty-first birthday, I heard her say, “I love you.” She said it back!
It’s moments like these that remind me of the resilience of the human spirit.
Despite our upbringing, despite the barriers that threaten to divide us, love has the power to transcend. Leslie’s journey is a testament to that resilience, a reminder that growth is not only possible but inevitable.
So, as we continue to navigate life’s uncertainties, let us hold onto the persistence of love. Let us cherish the moments of connection, no matter how fleeting. For in the end, it is love that sustains us, illuminating the path toward growth and understanding.
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