For International Women’s Day I’d like to recognize my sister, Leslie.
Yesterday, we did what we do every month: a Target run.
This is our tradition—stocking her up with snacks and coffee creamer (only the flavored kind—machiatto, vanilla).
Shopping with Leslie is always an adventure.
When Leslie first came to live with us, my kids were confused by some of her behaviors, especially when she didn’t say “please” or “thank you.” They didn’t understand.
I chalked it up to the way we were raised—politeness was present, but grace was in short supply—and I gave her a pass because she’s differently-abled.
But my kids? They didn’t let that slide.
Sitting at the kitchen counter, having her meals, Leslie would ask for things like a fork or iced tea—but they insisted: “Say please.”
When they handed her something, they expected to hear, “Thank you.”
Leslie wasn’t avoiding these pleasantries intentionally, she just didn’t understand.
Now she walks through Target, hands firmly on the cart as she breaks land records wheeling her way through the store, and says “Thank You” to every person she passes.
Afterwards, we went to Starbucks for her favorite – a Frappucino.
As I stood there next to her, it occurred to me that while there are moments of frustration (like when she drives the cart into my Achilles tendon), I feel a deep sense of gratitude.
I know that Leslie might not fully comprehend the potential her life could have had, but I do. And I feel blessed that she’s here with us, teaching us more than we realize.
I see the small moments: how people sometimes pull their children in when Leslie gets a little too close. I understand, but it still breaks my heart.
Leslie might be oblivious to these small interactions, but I’m not.
And what I’ve come to realize is that people like Leslie teach us the most important lessons of all—compassion and acceptance.
So today, on International Women’s Day, I celebrate Leslie: my sister, my childhood best friend, and one of the kindest souls I know.
She’s an amazing woman. And I’m so lucky to call her family.
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